Showing posts with label Melissa Chasteen. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Melissa Chasteen. Show all posts

Tuesday, November 3, 2009

Do Something You Love


Do Something You Love
By Melissa Chasteen

I started working when I was 16, doing everything from folding clothes at Abercrombie Kids to performing ultra sounds on patients at a hand rehabilitation clinic. Of all of the random jobs I’ve held, the most beneficial and the one that has provided me with the most useful knowledge has been my internship. I have a passion for music and I’m an avid movie watcher, so when searching for an internship I was hoping to find one where I could not only use my knowledge from Public Relations classes, but knowledge of the film and music industry as well.

I interned at the Oklahoma Film & Music Office this past summer, and for the first time I was able to utilize the skills I gained from my PR classes and apply them to my work tasks. Some of my responsibilities included writing press releases that went on the homepage of the Web site, editing the weekly newsletter and posting articles from various film industry trade papers on the press page. My primary responsibility was researching artists that were going to be performing concerts in Oklahoma and writing about them on the Web site.

The most exciting part of the internship was the external groups associated with the company. The film The Killer Inside Me was wrapping up its filming in Guthrie and workers from the set would constantly call with questions pertaining to Oklahoma lifestyle and a scene was even filmed outside of the office. Also, workers from the TNT's show Saving Grace (which is supposed to be set in Oklahoma) always called with questions about Oklahoma (how we dressed, what was the most practiced religion in the state.) I would research these inquiries and in the process I was able to learn a lot of interesting information about our state!

In regards to advice I have for excelling in your work, the underlying theme is to be FAMILIAR.

· Be familiar with the area surrounding your workplace. One aspect of being an intern is that you’re inevitably the “gopher.” Knowing the restaurants and stores around your office minimizes confusion when trying to fetch various things for your employer.
· Be familiar with various computer software and the Internet. This is a given, but your job will be a lot easier if you can easily navigate through the Internet and if you understand programs like Microsoft Word, PowerPoint and Excel.
· Be familiar with everyone in your office. Networking is vital when wanting to further your career, and having good relationships with co-workers lets you hear about other career opportunities that you may not have known about otherwise.


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Saturday, October 3, 2009

Family Searches for Sister


Family Searches for Sister

By Melissa Chasteen

After two failed attempts at in vitro fertilization in 2001, Maryann DeSimone and her husband Robert had given up all hope of becoming parents. At that point in their lives they were against adoption, so they thought they would find happiness in their lives through material possessions such as a new boat or more vacations.

Little did they know their lives would soon be changing dramatically. While the DeSimone’s dreams of parenthood were diminishing, three girls from Ukraine, Katie, 9; Darya, 7; and Irina, 6, were in dire need of a family. The girls’ mother died in childbirth and the stress proved too strong for their father, leading him to a life of alcoholism and the girls being placed into an orphanage. With one more attempt at parenthood, the DeSimones signed up with an adoption agency and one year later received an E-mail about the three girls.

The adoption process started in 2003 with many setbacks along the way. In order for the adoption paperwork to get filled out, everyone in Ukraine that was involved in the adoption—clerks, notaries, police officers—had to be bribed before they did anything. Also, the girls’ aunt and uncle, who had nothing to do with them beforehand, showed up to delay the process even more. Fed up with the bribes and setbacks, the DeSimones had considered stopping the adoption process, but instead battled on, with the adoption being finalized in early 2005.

Not long after the girls settled down in their new home in Huntington, N.Y., Darya pleaded with her new parents that they find their youngest sister, Vera. Darya said, “When Mommy went to heaven, Vera never came home.” The DeSimones immediately starting searching for the child, fearing that she may have been sold on the black market. They are continually working with officials in Ukraine, consequently paying more bribes and incentives. Though they’re faced with more setbacks than before, the DeSimones said they refuse to give up looking and will continue to share their story.

In Spencer Johnson’s “Who Moved My Cheese,” two mice and two little people are faced with change when their cheese disappears. The DeSimones’ journey is a prime example of having your cheese moved. Instead of giving up hope of having children, they searched and ultimately changed their lives in order to provide for their new family. They can be compared to the two mice, Sniff and Scurry, because of their commitment to “finding the cheese” and doing whatever it takes to get it. Even more so, the three girls—who before coming to America had never eaten a banana, nor used or even seen toilet paper—had to change their lives dramatically, learning a new language and adjusting to life in a new country and new family.

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